Why you shouldn't overpraise your child: opinion of psychologist Dmitry Karpachev

In the Supermama project at STB, moms continue to compete for the title of the best. Victoria became one of the participants.

The heroine of the reality "Supermama" brings up her daughter Zlata. Visiting Vika, rivals noticed that the mother often praises her child. How dangerous it can be - said Dmitry Karpachev.

Victoria leads a very active life. She is a senior police lieutenant, a plus-size model, an actress, a singer, a blogger, and, of course, a mother. Victoria has six higher educations and many awards, but the main one is her daughter Zlata!

Visiting Vika, rival mothers noticed that she very often praised her daughter. The heroines even noted that, in their opinion, sometimes it was undeserved. Dmitry Karpachev emphasizes that this can lead to negative consequences.

If the mother over-praises the child when he grows up, she will expect praise for every move she makes. The child will face frustration because other people will assess him objectively. Children need to be praised. And the more the better. But praise should only be based on real achievement. Separating children from objective reality is very dangerous, because this way the child runs the risk of getting severe stress when he gets into adulthood.

- the expert comments.