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2023 Author: Blake Bradshaw | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-20 16:20
One of the main tasks of parents is to raise not only a healthy, but also a harmonious child who will be able to achieve their goals and will also feel happy.
Child psychologists are sure that a child grows up with a minimum number of complexes and perceives the world around him harmoniously, he cannot say some phrases.
Adults must be listened to
In fact, not all adults should be listened to by a child. Such an attitude will lead to the fact that the child will consider everyone older than him as the authority. This can be dangerous.
Instead of “Adults should be listened to”, say that the child should listen to the parents. And it is right.
Do not be greedy
Often, on the playgrounds, you can see a picture when the baby does not want to share toys with other children and the parents urge him not to be greedy. This will lead to the fact that the child will not have a sense of ownership, and he will become too sacrificial, which is not good in adult life.
Instead of forcing your toddler to share, invite him to swap toys or let someone play for a while. And if he is against it, let it be his choice.
What a beautiful girl Katya
Often, parents set up someone else as an example to their child. As a result, your child will be confident that he is worse than others.
The child needs to be motivated for certain achievements or behavior model, but not set as an example for him some kind of “good girl”.
Grow up - you will find out
If a child is interested in something, then he needs to get an answer. And if the parents dismiss the answer with a standard phrase, the child will look for other sources of information.
Of course, if you look at children's questions like "Why is the sky blue?", It seems that there is nothing to worry about. However, the child will grow up and soon he will need answers to serious questions, but knowing that you will brush him off, he will not turn to you.